Thursday, May 21, 2009

What do we do all day?

Well, my day goes something like this. Gray and I wake up at 7:00 a.m. or before depending on how the babies are sleeping. While Gray hops in the shower to get ready for work, I busily pop the bottles in the crock pot to warm, gather burp cloths, bibs, and pacifiers and set up pillows and boppys in the living room. I then change the babies and put them in position for feeding. I usually place two babies in boppys on either side of me, and then place the two that will be fed first on a firm pillow in my lap. After they eat and burp, I swap their positions and begin again. After everyone is done (usually about an hour to an hour and a half later) I put them back in the bed for a morning nap.
I then run the dish washer, start a load of laundry and try to get a shower before the 11:00 feeding. Twice this week I have gone back to bed until 11:00 to catch up on the sleep that we lose at night. At 11:00 we do it all again, but this time I line them up in swings and bouncy seats for their awake time. I then attempt to entertain them so that they will stay awake until nap time. I read them books, talk to them, shake rattles, sing, etc. to keep them awake. After that, they take another nap until around 3:00 p.m. During that time, I eat lunch, continue laundry, make fresh formula and pour 20 bottles. On Mondays, Wednesday and Fridays, I give them baths, so I also prepare for that. They sleep really well after taking a bath and love them!
Gray gets home at around 5:00 p.m. and I can go run an errand or get out of the house for a little bit. At 6:00 we feed them again, but of course it goes much more smoothly with two people. After that, we eat dinner and relax until 9:00. We feed them again at 9:00 and go directly to bed.
Night time is still pretty tough for the babies. We are trying to train them to sleep from 10:00 until 3:00a.m. but it has yet to happen. They usually crank up around one and we share turns popping up and down to soothe babies. Usually we can hold them off until right around 3:00 a.m. We feed them in a dark room very quietly, and tuck them back in. For the most part they go back to sleep pretty easily after that feeding, but we've had a couple of nights when it took an hour. When they do get to sleep they usually make it until 7:00.
We certainly look forward to the day that they can sleep through the night. Even sleeping for four hours at a time at night would help tremendously. I know we have a long way to go, but the way the time is passing, it will be here in no time. We are going to be calling in the troops again for the next few weeks. My mother is coming next Tuesday to help and Liz and Broox will be here next weekend. Despite the sleepiness, Gray and I are enjoying every minute with our babies (maybe not the middle of the night minutes)! :) They are growing right in front of our eyes and I laugh out loud daily at one of their expressions, or babbles or personalities unfolding. It is so hard to believe that they will be 3 months old next week. Look how big they are now!
Rainer watching me entertain.

Virginia has become fascinated with the bear mobile.


Jane enjoying the swing.

The boys
This is where I typically sit the babies after I finish feeding them. I then precede to read to them, shake rattles, sing and dance to try and keep them awake until the end of the hour.
Broox being a cutie pie.
Jane and Virginia. It looks like they're telling secrets.
"Put that down and get my bottle!"

Hanging out with daddy.



Gray and me at Jacksons in Homewood. We got to go out with my mother, grandmother, aunt and cousin while Marie and Charity were watching the babies. We had so much fun, and it was great to get out of the house.

















Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy Mother's Day!

(Rainer, Virginia, Jane and Broox)
The Fab Four
Daddy and Babies
Jane was too tired to participate. She had just had her 2 oz. and she was out.
This is a great feeling! All four of your children in your arms at once. I know I won't be able to keep them there long.


Happy Mother’s Day! I am so proud to be a part of the club. We’ve had a wonderful week with Marie and Charity here with us. They have been here helping with the babies and still have one more week to spend with us. The babies are really doing well with the suggestions they have made and are sleeping much longer in the night than before. Marie is hoping that Broox will be sleeping through the night by the time she leaves. I’m already ecstatic that they are only having to eat at 9:30 p.m. and then not again until around 3:00 a.m. and then back to bed until 7:00 a.m. She has also been able to work out their reflux issues and other causes of fussiness.

They are all growing so fast! No one is wearing preemie clothes any longer. Broox and Jane’s eyes are getting lighter and bluer, while Rainer and Virginias are getting darker. For the first time the other night when I was talking and smiling at Rainer he smiled right back at me! It’s amazing to see them interact with you like that. These pictures were taken today, and they will be 11 weeks old tomorrow. Time is just flying by.

For Mother’s Day, Gray and the babies gave me a beautiful amethyst ring to represent their birth month, and Marie cooked us a delicious lunch to celebrate. I had such a special day and look forward to this first year as a mother. I had the best example in the world for motherhood in my own mother. I can only hope to be just like her.




Thursday, April 30, 2009

It's Quad a Life

Jane and Virginia waiting for their bottles. We can feed both of them at the same time in this chair. Thanks Mary!
Hanging out after a bath in their precious monogrammed suits from Aunt Anne.

Activity Mat with "Wubba Nubs." They love these pacifiers with the stuffed animals on the end. It's so cute when they grab onto the toy. They don't fall out all of the time like the others, which we love about them too!

Having fun moving and shaking! (Jane and Rainer)

The nursery in our new house.

Rainer is going to be a computer whiz. He was glued to that screen.

I've got thirty minutes until the babies' next feeding and I'm determined to get some new pics posted. Things are going well here at the Garrett household. We are a very happy bunch and are having so much fun. Gray was able to take some time off from work this week and we have really had a good time being by ourselves as a family for the first time.

We have been keeping the babies on a four hour schedule and so far it works better in the day. Jane and Virginia are happy to wait that long to eat and usually fall back asleep quickly. Broox however is sleeping about an hour and a half after eating and then getting up again, and Rainer likes to get up an hour before feeding time. They refuse to go back to sleep at that point. We usually have to take them to the den and continually rock them and give them a pacifier while they wait it out. This makes us very tired and them very fussy. Hopefully, they will soon decide it's just not worth it and sleep until feeding time! :)


The babies all had their 2 month well visits over the last two weeks and got great reports! Their new weights are:


Broox: 7 pounds 7 ounces
Rainer: 6 pounds 2 ounces
Virginia: 5 pounds 3 ounces
Jane: 4 pounds 14 ounces


We won't be going again until next month, when they'll receive their immunizations. We're taking the whole crew next time, and I have no idea where they will put us. It is already a tight squeeze in the examination room with two babies and two car seats.






Monday, April 20, 2009

A New Chapter

Rainer
VirginiaJane
We love our Boppys!
Broox
The night before we brought Jane home.
Jane
Uncle Marshall feeding Broox.
This is where the babies spend a lot of their time right now. On their way to their new home.
Pal and Honey are old pros.
Bottle Time with lots of great help. (Daddy, Mama, and Broox)
Jane's Turn

Taking Jane home and our last trip to the hospital!

She was not happy with the carseat.
About to join her brothers and sister again.

The Garrett Quads!

Isn't Broox a great big brother?!

Tummy Time (No one was really interested on this day)

Virginia and Jane love to cuddle up at night. This is how I find them when it's time to eat.

Broox with his fingers interlaced. What a smart boy!

It's only been a little over a week since my last post, but it feels like at least three! Since last Sunday, we have packed up our old house, brought our fourth infant home from the hospital, had a new house painted, strategically moved everything we own to our new house around four babies, unpacked and unpacked and unpacked, diapered and fed Jane, Rainer, Virginia and Broox every three hours, went to the pediatrician, spent time with our parents....it wears me out just thinking about it again. All in all we have had a very successful week. I really cannot believe what we were able to accomplish in that amount of time. It has been quite a whirlwind but with the help of our parents it went smoothly. We are now settling into our new home with all of our babies here with us finally!

Jane was able to come home on Tuesday of last week. We agreed with our nurses when they said that Jane just wanted to have her own "big day" and wasn't about to share it with one of her siblings. She adjusted right away to being home and now it seems as if the babies were never apart.

Now that we are with them 24/7 their personalities are really starting to shine. They are all so unique and special. I love getting to know them better everyday. I will post more soon about our daily lives with quadruplets now that we are beginning to get caught up.

Sunday, April 12, 2009