Elizabeth Jane Garrett
Nickname: Janie, Janie Jane
Words Used to Describe You: nurturing, mother hen, talkative, high maintenance, girly girl, particular, sweet, people pleaser, happy, good listener, helpful, dramatic, observant
Dear Jane,
You have short curly brown hair and big blue-green eyes. You are the shortest of your brothers and sisters and weigh in at twenty-five pounds. You are extremely verbal and were the first to be able to carry on a conversation. You pick up the phrases that your daddy and I use often and pull them out when the opportunity presents itself. Last night when I told you it was time to go to sleep you said, “Ummm…how ‘bout one more Dora.” When I ask you where something is, you might say, “It’s in my bedroom I bet.” You are a little mama to your siblings. You are always checking up on them and asking about them. You like to tell them you love them. You are a big helper to your mama. You are good about picking up your toys or bringing things to me when I need them. You know the order of events and all of the routines that we have from day to day, and like to talk about your family. You like to talk it out with me, always making sure that you have it just right. You are a happy girl who likes to play with dolls, dance and laugh. You are mature for your age and I am able to explain things to you and you understand and accept the explanation. You were a breeze to potty train because you like to do things that “big girls” do. You can be very high maintenance, especially at bedtime. Before you go to bed peacefully, you demand a list of items. Pink socks, “lil baby”, Penny, water, doggy, pink jacket, froggy, and “Coley blanket” are just a few of the things that we run around the house looking for so that you will go to sleep. When we give you these things, you tuck them down under your blanket and then pull the comforter over your head to fall asleep. We often sneak in and remove at least half of it before we go to sleep and we are trying to teach you to narrow it down. We give you two options and you choose one. This sometimes works and sometimes doesn’t. The truth is, it’s just a stall technique you use to stay up longer. You love to eat and take your time when you do. It drives your siblings crazy when they quickly gobble up their cookie at snack and you are still nibbling away at yours. I have a hard time convincing them it’s still your first one. You are a big hoarder too, and sneak their snacks away when you can. You are a girly girl and love all things pink. We’ve started talking a little about Christmas and when I asked you what you wanted Santa to bring you, you said presents. When I asked what kind, you said, “pink ones.” You badly want a ponytail, but don’t have enough hair yet. You are such a smart, funny and loving little girl. We love you so much!
Love,
Mama


